5 Tips on spending Half Term as Separated Parents
9 February 2026
Taylor Bracewell
As the February half-term is approaching, it is important to plan ahead for the holidays as many parents and children look forward to spending this time together. However, for separated parents, school holidays and seasonal events can bring added worries about how time with children will be shared, not just for now, but for future occasions such as Easter, Christmas and birthdays.
We often hear clients say, “While my children are young and still enjoying school holidays and traditions like Pancake Day, I don’t want to miss out on making those memories with them’’. This is completely understandable, but it can be challenging when both parents want to spend that time with their children.
Our advice to separated parents in this situation is always the same: plan ahead. Pre-planning arrangements for your children, particularly during school holidays, is the best way to reduce conflict and ensure special occasions are enjoyed by everyone involved. It helps everyone feel as though they are on the same page and can minimise disagreements and confusion.
Here are our Family Team’s top 5 tips for navigating February half-term as separated parents:
1. Discuss plans in advance and be flexible
It’s important that plans aren’t left until the last minute as this can cause further disagreements. Discuss with your ex-partner what the plans are going to be a few weeks in advance. It’s important that you are flexible with these plans and understand your ex-partner’s wants and needs as well as your own. Most importantly, your children’s needs should always be put first.
2. Share photos and updates
If you’re the parent spending time with your children during half-term activities or special celebrations, consider sharing photos or updates. This small gesture can help the other parent feel included and reassured that the children are happy and enjoying themselves.
3. Spend time together where possible
If relations allow, spending time together during half-term can help ensure neither parent feels excluded and allows children to enjoy the occasion with both parents present.
4. Celebrate in different ways
It may be that one parent spends Pancake Day with the children, while the other plans a half-term activity on a different day. Maybe consider having two pancake days, double the fun and double the memories! This allows both parents to create positive memories without conflict.
5. Alternate arrangements each year
Taking turns year-on-year can be a fair and practical solution. For example, one parent may spend Pancake Day with the children one year, with arrangements reversed the following year. You could even compromise the rest of the half-term too, allowing for the other parent to do their own celebrations or activities is equally as important. Agreeing this in advance can help avoid future disputes.
How can Taylor Bracewell’s Family team help?
Our Family Team are always happy to help and offer further advice. They can be contacted on 01302 341414 or 0114 272 1884. Alternatively, you can fill out our online enquiry form.
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